WHAT'S STOPPING YOU?

Do you show who you really are? Or do you keep yourself smaller and less visible than necessary?
Would you like to make a positive contribution to this world, but haven't found your role in it yet?
Do you feel something of restlessness, but can't yet pinpoint what it's about?
Do you notice that you have been "numbing" feelings of discomfort for some time in order to avoid feeling that you are actually stuck?
Has stress gradually become part of your life?

In coaching, you will discover that much more is possible than you think now!

Curious?

Zoals Ineke bij mijn eerste coachingsessie al zei: “ Dit is een enorm cadeau voor jezelf” – en dat bleek absoluut te kloppen. Ineke weet op een heel natuurlijke, nuchtere en humoristische manier ook de diepere onderwerpen aan te raken, zonder dat het ongemakkelijk of zweverig wordt.
In een reeks van zes persoonlijke coaching gesprekken heb ik mezelf echt leren zien: wie ik ben, waar ik voor sta, wat ik wil en welke achtergronden en culturele patronen mij soms belemmeren om dicht bij mezelf te blijven. Het traject heeft me geholpen te ontdekken waar mijn kwaliteiten liggen – en waar ook niet – waardoor ik mijn focus beter kan leggen op activiteiten die bij mij passen en mij energie geven.
Jeroen Wink –  MD, PHD
Last year I followed an individual coaching program with Ineke in order to recognize and deploy my leadership qualities. Through these sessions I became aware of how much potential there is in myself that needs to be recognized by yourself in order to use it. The sessions were intensive, but at the same time a party because of the handles and tools that I could immediately apply to my work and private situation, as a result of which my life is in balance. I am able to shape my work in a more efficient way and use my environment in a positive way. These sessions are highly recommended if you want to invest in yourself. ' 
Renske Veenema
In the coach conversations I got clear where my qualities and vulnerabilities lie and under the guidance of Ineke I sharply formulated the things I want to stand for and which are fundamental for the contribution I want to make to the world. Ineke acted as a coach who, with a combination of humor and perseverance, stimulated me time and again to sharpen my focus. Looking back, I have learned to use this "new" awareness to get a clear view of what I want to achieve, what I want to contribute to, what is the heart of the matter for me.
About 3 years ago, I saw a large sign somewhere along a road that simply read, "Are you making a difference?" That question eventually led me to make the confident decision to choose a leadership position in a different work environment. I see plenty of opportunities to fulfill my core values in the areas of people, society and the world. And try to seize these as much as possible. The result is that I feel competent, involved and inspired in the work that I do. And that is a wonderful feeling! '
Matthijs Brouwer, education manager
Ineke heeft me enorm geholpen met de uitdagingen van ondernemen: Het vinden van mijn manier van leidinggeven, omgaan met stress, uitzoomen en bepalen wat belangrijk is, binnen werk en daarbuiten. Dit deed ze altijd zonder te oordelen, invullen of bepalen. De juiste vragen en (voor mij) sprekende metaforen waren erg fijn om mijn antwoorden te vinden. Bedankt Ineke!
Jasper Haggenburg, ondernemer

WHAT TO EXPECT?

Of course you would like to know what to expect when you enter into a coaching program with me. First, an open and inspiring conversation.
We zijn daarin volkomen gelijkwaardig. Jij bent de expert op jouw vakgebied en in jouw leven, ik voeg daar mijn kennis en jarenlange ervaring vanuit de coaching aan toe. Ik zal je vooral vragen stellen die jou op een nieuwe en verhelderende manier naar jouw vraagstuk laten kijken. Ik stel je persoonlijke, verdiepende en soms confronterende vragen, maar altijd vanuit echtheid en respect. Humor en lichtheid mogen er gelukkig ook zijn 🙂
We will regularly use exercises where you get to be active. It is nice and important not to just stay in your head, but to experience what it all does to you. All aspects of you will be addressed: rational, emotional, physical, and if appropriate, spiritual.
Of course, I will also give you many practical tools that you will probably enjoy throughout your life. As inspiration, I will regularly give you film clips and reading tips.

'Ineke has coached me in recent years in different phases of my professional career: changing role in a rapidly growing organization, changing relationships, filling management positions and thus my own personal and leadership development. It was (and sometimes still is) a voyage of discovery and I am very grateful to Ineke for the insights I have gained in recent years. Although it has not always been easy to make radical choices, Ineke, with her coaching style and warm personality, has contributed to me knowing who I am and what I (no longer) want. This has improved the quality of my life, both business and private.'
Nancy Neuteboom - Owner Boomers Realty

WHAT SUITS YOU?

A coaching program should totally fit the need you have right now. Do you want to solve an urgent problem in a short period of time? Or do you want to work intensively on something for a longer period of time? Is it about your personal development? Or are leadership questions also involved? Of course, we can always put together a customized trajectory in consultation!
There are several options for coaching:

  • 1:1 with me in the coach room in Hilversum
  • 1:1 online
  • 1:1 walking coaching on the Hoorneboegse Heide in Hilversum
  • deelnemen aan een One Day Retreat (bij de Hoorneboeg)
  • online coaching programma BREAK FREE!

An online Talent & Drives assessment with the Odin Development Compass can be a nice complement to coaching conversations. It provides a clear map of where your natural talents are, what your pitfalls are and where there is undiscovered potential.

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Ineke has helped me tremendously. She has a perfect alternation for me in "letting things happen" vs. tightening the reins in conversations. The questions she asked me and the mirrors she held up to me, combined with content knowledge about course of action, were ideal. I am extremely happy with my journey with Ineke because it changed my life.
Pieter Koningsveld
Ineke is an empathic listener who gets to the heart of the matter. She then coaches with concrete tools to confront situations.
Cobi Labuscagne
It suited me well; and hopefully it will continue for a while.
Ineke listens very well; and then hooks up with small smart exercises that make an impact very quickly.
I gained many insights and also got closer to my own feelings again.
For me it was very nice that Ineke didn't use a set pattern because my questions were on personal leadership, private work balance, vitality and stress and that really intertwined.
Being there in the here and now and anticipating that together worked very beneficial and very enlightening for me.
Stijntje Molkenboer
Pleasant interlocutor. Ineke puts you to good work to bring your real passions to the surface.
Jan Roelof
'Ineke has given me insight into how to be as a person. Both personally, -most importantly- and in my work I have changed positively in this.
Not a 'soft healer' but clear in her communication. 'Get to the point' I will definitely continue to think of. Stand still -we walked during the sessions- and talk to you as a child and turn around and be that child. How do you think on the spot as a child and how as an adult looking at that child. Very happy with that seemingly simple role play. I still apply that tool, now two years later.
Arjan Kroon
Ineke is een prettig, kalm en positief persoon. Ze gaf mij het vertrouwen dat het wel goed zou komen. Dit vond ik in het begin lastig om te zien, maar ik kan zeggen dat het waarheid is geworden! Ik sta een stuk zekerder en denk ook weer in kansen. Als klapper op de vuurpijl sloot ik het traject af met het bericht dat ik een nieuwe baan heb. Die baan die in het verschiet lag, was écht dichtbij! Tot slot zorgt Ineke er ook altijd voor dat er even gelachen wordt en dat is heel fijn.
Saskia